...the awful complexities that make love twisted bloody and criminal...
Hélène Cixous, Stigmata: Escaping Texts; from ‘Stigmata, or Job the Dog', tr. Eric Prenowitz
A masculine man wants a feminine woman who is his valued counterpart. Not a doormat or a pushover. Nor is he looking for his gender twin-a masculine woman. He wants a woman who will compliment his masculinity with her femininity.
Masculine men don't see femininity as less valuable than masculinity. good men view women, and look for women, that they see as different but equal to them. Not inferior to them. Most men hold femininity at very high regard because it is so hard to find, that they see it as a strength. When we operate from our feminine energy, men naturally want to protect us, care for us, adore and honor us.
Although some feminine qualities like softness and tenderness seem insignificant to us because they are natural and effortless, they are precious to a man. Our feminine softness proves valuable because it soothes his soul and contributes to his sense of well-being. our femininity makes a man feel masculine. And his masculinity restores his energy. Without a feminine woman in his life, a man often lacks inspiration and settles for an average life.
